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THE MEHER SCHOOL
Love Nurtures Learning
Parenting from the Heart
Weekly insight and tips for a loving approach to parenting from our preschool director Susie Kohl.
Susie Kohl
Nov 3, 20222 min read
The Need for Patience
“Why do I have to learn to read?” a six-year-old asks her dad. “You can read to me,” she explained patiently. Her father asks what she...
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Susie Kohl
Oct 27, 20222 min read
Halloween Opportunities
In the weeks approaching Halloween, we have the chance to see what value this celebration holds for children and note some of the risks....
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Susie Kohl
Oct 21, 20222 min read
Pause and Refresh
“In an age of constant movement, nothing is as urgent as sitting still.” Pico Iyer A second grader running relentlessly on the grassy...
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Susie Kohl
Oct 6, 20222 min read
Boundaries: A Tricky Balance
Can you remember a childhood experience of being forced to do something or stop doing something, and the adults involved didn’t...
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Susie Kohl
Sep 29, 20222 min read
Making Togetherness a Game
Want your child to be able play cooperatively with others? Many interactive games teach social skills in an enjoyable way that promotes...
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Susie Kohl
Sep 22, 20222 min read
Two Steps Forward, One Step Back
Why do parents feel so much frustration when a child’s development suddenly goes backward? When we have a child who has adjusted to...
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Susie Kohl
Sep 15, 20222 min read
Recognizing Helpful Contributions
We have a delightful photo exhibit in our Hallway Gallery, and we hope families and classroom groups will spend time looking at the...
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Susie Kohl
Sep 8, 20222 min read
Punctuality Without Pain
Make being punctual a family value that communicates the message “I respect you and care about you” in any situation, but particularly...
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Susie Kohl
Sep 1, 20222 min read
Be A Welcomer
I believe in the world and its bigness and splendor, that most of the hearts beating round us are tender; … that strangers are friends...
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Susie Kohl
Jun 2, 20222 min read
Working Together for All
“Learning to work together, learning to work as one; learning to work together, that’s how life’s work gets done. ... We are building...
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Susie Kohl
May 26, 20221 min read
A Child’s Life Story
“WHEN I WAS A BABY, my first word was ‘cookie.’” A child’s sense of having a life story doesn’t happen automatically as they enter...
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Susie Kohl
May 19, 20222 min read
Friendship Dynamics
“Old friends, new friends, this is what we do, friends – sing and dance with you.” —Sandra Star This time of year, when we say good-bye...
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Susie Kohl
May 13, 20221 min read
Channeling Spring Energy
THE FORCES THAT RUN through plants and baby lambs in spring run through all, though it’s often most apparent in children. At school,...
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Susie Kohl
May 5, 20223 min read
A Sense of Entitlement
FINDING THE BALANCE between protecting children and enabling a sense of entitlement can be challenging. No one wants to raise an...
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Susie Kohl
Apr 28, 20222 min read
(Positive) Word of the Day
DICTIONARIES URGE PEOPLE to build vocabulary, at any age, by picking a “word of the day” and finding ways to use it in various...
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Susie Kohl
Apr 21, 20222 min read
After-School “Collapse”
JOYFUL AFTER-SCHOOL REUNIONS are difficult when a child gets angry because they have to leave an activity or they fall apart in the car...
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Susie Kohl
Apr 14, 20222 min read
“A Chance to Start Over”
“SAY YOU’RE SORRY.” Adults often insist on children making apologies, thinking that having to say “sorry” is part of learning not to...
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Susie Kohl
Apr 1, 20222 min read
Being Courageous
“WE ENCOURAGE YOU TO TALK ABOUT how brave and special our daughter is.” These words are part of a recent note to Room 4 families from...
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Susie Kohl
Mar 24, 20222 min read
Asking for Help
“WHY DIDN’T YOU ASK FOR HELP?” Occasionally parents report feeling frustrated when their child tells them at night that they needed...
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Susie Kohl
Mar 17, 20222 min read
Discovering Children's “Unique Note”
“WHO DO YOUR THINK YOU ARE?” That’s a question that Caroline McHugh asks CEOs, politicians, ballet dancers, musicians, and countless...
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